10 REASONS WOMEN STAY WITH A CHEATING MEN

TOTEM NETWORK CITE REASONS WHY WOMEN FORGIVE THEIR HUSBANDS

• Having known the partner for a long time and believing that he or  has changed and therefore there is potential that the relationship could work.

• Believing that they don’t have enough energy and strength to restart a “dating game”.

• Believing that the partner has the potential to become a great partner and that they just need to change a few things, such as bad company.

• Drinking and having too many male or female companions and the relationship will surely work.

• Believing that the partner cheated because he or she was not good enough and after “fixing” themselves believe they are now a perfect match.

•  The cheating partner is known by the family as a good person and not a cheater. They avoid telling the family the true reasons why the relationship ended. Wanting to protect their partner’s image.

• The cheating partner is able to provide materially and they believe they may not survive without the financial support.

•  Having a child and not wanting to raise a child with another man.

•  Influence from friends and family, including the cheating partner’s family, especially mothers. Women, for example, will be told that all men are the same and that she might meet a man who is worse than the cheating partner. So, she might as well stay and deal with his cheating behavior.

• Believing they will not be able to love another person the same way they currently love someone.

•  Believing God told them this was their “soul mate”.