If you want to marry someone who is rich but it turns out you can’t find that someone. What should you do ?
(Your environment versus your dreams)
The truth is only a few people are going to be married to a few available successful people.
In Zimbabwe 70% of women are going to wed exclusively poor men. This is because Zimbabwe has failed to make its youth rich. Those that are considered rich are not even rich but they probably have an ex-japanese car,they rent a less than a 1000 usd apartment and they earn between 1500 usd and 3000usd. These people work in the private sector and they are less than 5% of our total population.
If it is like this then what about the majority ? Those that are employed by the government happens to be the poorest people. They earn less than 100usd as it stands then the rest are either unemployed or self employed.
Dreaming of getting married to a rich person whilst staying in Zimbabwe is almost not a practical dream to start with. This is because what is on the ground does not amount to that . Though people would want to believe in their fantasies.
The truth is many men in Zimbabwe are stuck in poverty and they are married to environmental limitations. Zimbabwe has incapacitated many men even those with potential. Zimbabwe has a system that automatically channels anyone into poverty. Only a few people are able to circumvent and manoeuvre their way to success.
Many women are fighting to be married to a few successful men that are less than 10 % of our population. Already women are more than men when it comes to our total population. Then imagine them fighting to be married to this 10%.This is a disaster .
This has left many women single . Especially those who had made it a goal (checklist)to only be married to the rich class. Women are looking for what the nation is failing to offer. Many times I have heard women declaring affirmations like “i will have my Boaz”. But it always ends with “so where is my Boaz?”. This is because many people are ignoring what is happening on the ground.
If you dream of getting married to a rich man .Zimbabwe is probably not a place for you. If you want to make it local and you insist on trying your luck by focusing your eyes on the rich 10% then you are in for lottery.
Maybe you are there still single hoping to be married to a successful men or women. I don’t know how long you have been waiting or how long you are going to wait. I am just here to give wisdom . The more you wait the more complicated it becomes.
Either leave Zimbabwe and go where the economy allows people to flourish or invest in potential.
This will work.
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