Before you start a relationship with a African lady

GUYS LISTEN CAREFULLY

1. Before you start a relationship with a lady,
you must think carefully about what you are
about to do. A relationship is not something
you should rush into or handle lightly.

2. Are you ready for a relationship with her?
Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually
mature to meet her needs?

3. Being sexually attracted to her means
absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness,
love or any other thing your mind may come up
with. It may just be your hormones messing
with your mind. A woman is more than her
body and her sexuality. She has a life which
you should be able to blend with. Can you do
that?

4. This lady has a history. Can you handle it?
She has a past. Can you handle it? Can you
handle her mistakes, failures and weaknesses?
Can you handle her dreams without being
intimidated and becoming jealous?

5. She already had a life before she met you.
Can you fit into and help improve her life?

6. Love is commitment. Are you ready to
commit your life to helping her grow and
become all that she can be, by God’s grace?

7. Is she valuable enough for you to devote a
large portion of your life towards the
accomplishment of HER dream? Are you ready
to pour your resources into making her all the
Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready,
don’t just bother.

8. Before you open your mouth to say ‘I love
you’, ask yourself if this is not just a moment of
‘emotional madness’. A lady needs much more
than ‘I love you’. She needs your commitment.
If you are not ready to make that commitment
that will lead to marriage, please leave her
alone in peace and stop wasting her time and
resource.